Why You Should Stop Being a Good Person
(WorldNews Health)

`You´re such a good boy, Daniel.` `Sarah, that was a nice thing you did. You´re a sweetheart.` Did you hear phrases like this when you were younger? If you´re a parent, have you said something similar to your child? This form of praising starts in early childhood. Our parents, family members, and teachers innocently install it in us (as the prior generation did to them). `Good boy/girl` praising gives children a sense of pride and approval from their parents. This praising gets anchored into the child´s mind. Good behavior brings reward. Expressing negative emotions and unacceptable behavior (being bad) leads to punishment. Sit Down, Sit Up Straight, and Mind Your Manners All parents want...